August 4, 2012
This website – orthodox and gay – has received many emails from gay people, mostly Orthodox, from all over the world. They are grateful for the words of encouragement and feel blessed to have someone speaking openly, with a positive message, about being an Orthodox Christian and gay. Every so often we receive some angry emails – usually containing Scriptural references to gay people being an abomination in the sight of God.
July 27, 2012
One of the standard jokes is that if your mother is Jewish or Catholic, you are destined to a life of her making you feel guilty for everything. Well, my mother was neither Catholic nor Jewish and did not make her children feel guilty. She taught us right from wrong and when we did make the wrong choice, shaming us or making us feel guilty was never part of the final equation of learning a lesson. Only later in life did I truly appreciate her effective, gentile and sublime way of raising us.
July 15, 2012
“He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone.” (John 8:7) These are the words of Jesus confronting those wanting to stone a woman caught committing adultery. Jesus is asked for his advice on the matter by those ready to follow the law of Moses, and throw stones at the woman. “Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?” (John 8:5)
July 1, 2012
It is rare for Orthodox Christians to praise the actions of the Roman Catholic Church, and also rare for a gay man to praise the actions of a Roman Catholic priest, but here I go…
June 17, 2012
Drag Queens, ostentatious, over the top displays of sexuality and militant protest actions are an undeniable part of early gay history in the United States. Those that took part in the Stonewall riots in New York as well as members of the progressive Mattachine Society are recognized by the gay community today for their brave actions in standing up for equal rights for gays and lesbians. The American government was not, and certainly today is not, quickly recognizing the equality of its gay and lesbian citizens. Rights were fought for by our gay forefathers and today gay people are joined in this struggle by straight allies. While I am not a big fan of gay pride parades which take place all over the world, I understand their place and the importance of displaying the variety and diversity of gay people everywhere. From Dykes on Bikes to Log Cabin Gay Republicans, there is a place for everyone.
June 4, 2012
Anyone who has ever played the game Monopoly with a group of friends will soon discover that people play by their own rules. Some players will usually insist that their rules are the official rules of the game. Others will argue that the way they play is an acceptable alternative according to the manufacturers of the game. Still others have been playing that way for such a long time that they sincerely believe that the way they play the game is the right way. But what if you really know that you, your family members, or friends have made up their own rules after years of playing and simply ignoring the official play book? You have collectively decided that you do not have to play by the official rules to be in the game. Do I have to follow all the rules? Can I pick and choose the rules that I want to follow?
May 20, 2012
I have a wonderful aunt, who also happens to be my godmother. A woman of simple faith, but a simple faith that is quite extraordinary. We would have interesting discussions about the Orthodox Church which increased in measure when I became a seminarian. Once she asked me what I thought was the most important element in Christianity. Although armed with a few years of biblical studies, dogmatic, pastoral and liturgical theology, I was not sure that I had a quick answer. I took a few moments and then responded, Holy Communion. I told her that Communion, the Eucharist, was the most important element of Christianity. My aunt looked a bit puzzled and said, really, I would have thought that it was love. Isn’t love the most important part of Christianity, she asked? I am sure that I had the look upon my face as if I had just failed an exam in Seminary. Of course, love is the most important component of Christianity. My aunt had an intuitive faith that saw the entire forest and not just the trees.
May 6, 2012
Recently, on an internet discussion thread, I was asked about who Jesus would allow Himself to be photographed with. One question was if Jesus would be photographed with Patriarch Filaret. Filaret is the current primate of the Ukrainian Orthodox Church – Kyivan Patriarchate. Not liking my answer to the question, another person asked if Jesus would be photographed with a priest who is a faggot. Although not said explicitly by the person, I can safely assume that the priest in question who is a faggot, is me.
April 22, 2012
One of the greater tragedies of the twentieth century in Orthodox Church history was the cooperation between the Moscow Patriarchate of the Russian Orthodox Church and the government of the Soviet Union. The Church, whose mission is to bring souls to Jesus Christ, was systemically involved in fully supporting the brutal and atheistic regime of one of the most evil governments in history.
April 8, 2012
God’s LGBT Children in Ukraine, Russia, Belarus and Moldova is a newly released (2012) book written by an “Eastern Orthodox Bishop”. The book has the subtitle of “Homosexuality is not sinful, demonic, or a mental illness” and was self published by CreateSpace, and is now available in print from Amazon.com, (first link provided below), and also in Kindle eBook format (second link provided below). The book, some 90 pages, is a collection of 28 shorter essays that answer the very basic, but seminal questions that lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgendered people and their families might have about sexuality, morality and ethics.